Sunday, December 9, 2012

We love you Lulu.........

 Dylan loved Lulu. Mike and I have never seen him cry so hard as he did when we put her to sleep.  They had a special bond and she was always following him; she was his sidekick. He is doing better now and is recalling some good memories with her.  He would not talk about it for 3-4 days and we even took him out of school one afternoon to a movie because he was struggling.  A friend told us to make a memory book and put pictures around the house of her.  That has helped him.  Tate also knew Lulu from when he was a babe and he was always giving her hugs.  He has been more open to talk about her passing then Dylan. He just keeps saying, "I miss Lulu. I love her." Tate was able to say goodbye before we took her to the Vet and Dylan wasn't.  I think I made a mommy mistake not pulling Dylan out of school to say his goodbyes before we put her to sleep.  He was able to say goodbye after she was gone and it was very emotional for us all.
 

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